Grief is a natural reaction to the changes and loss that are an inherent part of life.
When grief arrives, most of us have no idea what to do with it.
It's messy, complex and wild. It can feel scary and overwhelming.
Grief is complex and layered within the three aspects of the process:
Many of us have a very difficult time loving ourselves when we are hurting, yet this is the radical act that is required to navigate this soul medicine.
Because this process can be incredibly confusing and painful, we forget that grief brings with her the wings of grace and the holy depths of compassion, truth, wisdom and love.
Grief is love.
The deeper the love, the more real the connection, the more significant the loss - the greater the grief. You grieve because you loved. Grief is a teacher that can open you to the depth of your heart and remind you of how powerful your love is. In your final act of loving you embark on a journey into an unknown as parts of you get re-worked, rewired and reclaimed before new beginnings.
Grief is aliveness.
You grieve because you are alive. It is healthy to feel and experience grief, to honor and feel for what has passed. It's painful and messy, like life. There aren't platitudes or ways to make it sexy. Yet, grief is vital life force energy. It's an honoring of your connection to life, to others, to your heart, to yourself.
If you didn't feel, if you didn't love, if you didn’t grieve, could you be happy?
Grief holds hands with gratitude.
There is no greater teacher of what to be grateful for and what is important in life than grief. Sometimes you don't realize what to appreciate until it's gone. Sometimes loss makes you re-evaluate what is important to you. Grief can connect you with gratitude in profound, real ways, in ways that connect you with the authentic heart opening that gratitude provides.
Courting grief is an initiation into knowing your soul.
It is birth and death coiling around each other like two snakes inhaling and exhaling life into each other. It's the heart remaining open in the face of all that is.
Life is filled within infinite changes, here are some (definitely not an exhaustive list) where you may experience grief:
Courting grief sessions are a safe, sacred container designed to support you in sharing your story, understanding your process more deeply, processing what is present in your heart in loving witness, learning more about the process and layers of grief and how they are showing up for you, as well as shamanic healing journey and energetic support.
Each session is a ceremonial space that is grounded in modern psychological and psychoanalytic principles while utilizing ancient soul technologies to bring healing, love and balance back to your healing heart.
Single one hour session
One month of grief support, which includes:
4 one hour sessions
Email support for one month
Two months of grief support, which includes:
6 one hour sessions
Journey notes and channeled message via email
Email Support for two months
Dr. Nandi Hetenyi is committed to supporting you to experience positive transformation and change in your life. She does this by offering you a unique integration of psychological knowledge, coaching, shamanic journey work, energy reading/healing, spiritual mentoring and practice, tools and information.
Nandi does not claim that any of her services will directly heal, cure or change your current situation/condition. She does not take any responsibility for decisions and actions you make based on the results of coaching with her.
This is not psychotherapy. While she will work with you to understand your life story and deeper psychological dynamics, it is not always an appropriate place to explore these issues in depth. If you are currently experiencing difficulties associated with substance abuse, mental illness or ongoing trauma and abuse, psychotherapy will be more appropriate for you and Nandi can provide you with appropriate referrals.
I have read the above disclaimer and know that if I choose to enroll in any of these programs and services, that I take full responsibility for my life, any changes I make and any consequences that may have. I understand that I am fully responsibly for engaging wholeheartedly in this work and my healing process.
There are no refunds for programs or services rendered.